About Rev. Jared Ruari

The Rev. Jared Ruari lives in Mansfield, Ohio with his partner Allison and their three cats. He is an ordained minister in the United Church of Christ and serves St. John's UCC.

Recent Blog Posts

Joy: An Intergenerational Perspective

By Rev. Jared Ruari  •  December 20, 2018

The watchword for this fourth Sunday of Advent is “joy,” and from reading this week’s gospel lesson from Luke, it is easy to see why. As we read of Mary’s visit to her..

Loving Life, Loving Funerals: The Faithfulness of Dying Well

By Rev. Jared Ruari  •  September 27, 2018

The Strangeness of Loving Funerals A friend of mine who serves as a church musician attended a memorial service recently and following the event, offered reflections..

Aging Hero: Mr. Rogers

By Rev. Jared Ruari  •  June 07, 2018

“I’ve always felt that I didn’t need to put on a funny hat or jump through the hoop to have a relationship with a child.” - Rev. Fred Rogers Few things as of late have..

Spiritual Practices: Aging, Forgiveness

By Rev. Jared Ruari  •  March 22, 2018

Would you believe me if I told you that elders are generally more likely to forgive than the rest of us?

Slowing Down: A Spiritual Practice

By Rev. Jared Ruari  •  February 22, 2018

It threw me for a loop when I first read Richard Morgan’s claim that the relatively slow pace of life in his 80s has been a great spiritual gift. Instinctively, I was..

Just Keep Moving: Exercise as a Spiritual Practice

By Rev. Jared Ruari  •  January 25, 2018

Do you remember Virginia McLaurin, the 106-year-old woman who danced with joy while meeting President and First Lady Barack and Michelle Obama?

Say What?: Facility vs. Community

By Rev. Jared Ruari  •  December 28, 2017

I do not think that I’d like to live my day-to-day life in a facility. When I hear “facility," my thoughts turn to “sports injury rehabilitation facility” or “state of..

Ethical Wills: How to Leave a Legacy of Intangibles

By Rev. Jared Ruari  •  October 26, 2017

Hang around enough funerals and eventually you will hear the cliché about hearses and U-Haul trailers. For those who have not heard the message, it goes something like..