I Get By With A Little Help From My Friends

By Rev. Darla Metz  •  October 28, 2025

Aging isn’t a slow fade—it’s more like a nice steady rise to a life well lived. But let’s be honest: it’s not always easy. Our bodies change, our roles shift, and sometimes, the world feels like it’s moving just a bit too fast. That’s why the title from a famous Beatle’s song “I get by with a little help from my friends” carries such meaning for me. Whether you're navigating retirement, caring for aging parents, or simply trying to stay engaged, abundant aging begins with accepting support, not..

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